Mediation: FAQs
What is Mediation?
Mediation is a process designed to help the parties reach mutually acceptable agreements. The mediator is a neutral third party (selected and paid by the parties) who is trained to work with people who are having disputes so they may find solutions with which to go forward. The mediator does not make decisions. You may be required to participate in mediation, but you are not required to settle issues.
How to schedule an appointment
To schedule an appointment with Iris Frost, please email:iris@irisfrostmediation.com. After making an appointment, you will receive an email confirming the appointment, and there will be two things you need to sign and return: 1) an Agreement to Mediate contract; and 2) a short intake form to collect data and information about your case. Email these completed forms to iris@irisfrostmediation.com​. The mediator will need to know your name, address, phone numbers (cell, home, work): your attorney's name, phone numbers: the county in which the case has been filed; the case number (located in the upper right section of your legal documents usually beginning with CDDM, DRCV, LA, or EQ followed by some numbers) and if you plan to have your attorney attend mediation with you. ​All information provided will remain confidential.
How much does Mediation cost?
The cost for mediation with Iris Frost is $200 an hour, which is $100 per hour per participant.
The cost of mediation includes scheduling and the Certificate of Mediation Completion required by the Court. If the parties are making progress during the mediation, an additional session is recommended, but not required. The charge for drafting agreements is $200 per hour ($100 per hour/per participant). The initial mediation session must be pre-paid.
Can my attorney attend my mediation?
Yes, having your attorney at the mediation session may be helpful. If you do choose to have your attorney participate with you, please contact your attorney and they will advise you. Please let us know if your attorney will be participating. Please bring with you any documents, legal pleadings, calculations, prior agreements, drawings, photographs, appraisals, investment statements, etc. that may be helpful during the mediation session.
Does the mediator take sides?
No. The Mediator provides an environment that allows participants to work together with the mediator to explore ideas and find ways to reach agreement. The mediator is neutral, working with both parties to create an atmosphere that encourages settlement. Mediators do not make the decisions. Mediators guide the process for participants to make their own decisions.